Also fall in love with a mirror.Have three mirrors in my house. 1: One that really lets me see progress. Mirror mirror on the wall, who's the most ripped dude you know? You are! Love this mirror and I get into seeing the changes.2: One that shows me I've still got work to do. Mirror mirror on the wall, who's the most ripped dude you know? Someone needs to get to work, bro. This mirror used to really piss me off. But now its telling me. I like where you are headed.3. Another mirror that mocks me, tries to make me cry. Mirror mirror on the wall, who's the most ripped dude you know? You FF, I wasn't supposed to be installed in this house. You disgust and repulse me. This mirror still pisses me off, but occasionally I get a little grudging ... "Hmmm" out of it and I know I'm gonna eventually get there with this mirror too. May take a tan but I'll get there.I really try not to pay attention to mirrors 2 and 3 too much. We're all different in the type of feedback we want and how frequently you want it. Some guys might like mirror 2, some mirror 3. For me I thank them for their POV, but I go take my shirt off with mirror 1.Just my 2c. I'm ok if you mock me for my narcissism / honesty.