Wow, my only recommendation is I hope you are not actually “giving” these things to her. Anyone who is not willing to take personal responsibility for their own nutrition and make some changes, is not going to really appreciate what you are doing for her. Don't get me wrong, I appreciate what you are doing for her. Unfortunately, it does not matter how badly you and I want to see her healthy… If she had had ENOUGH of her current situation, she'd be more open to new ideas and doing whatever she could to try and get out of it. Good luck, though. I've been there. :-