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Wait? I do NOT mean to be rude here, but to appease her? This is for you (hopefully), and it's your body. That's a WRONG way to go about a diet protocol if you're doing it for someone else. The fact that the comment was made about you not enjoying yourself even though it doesn't bother you, is pretty messed up to have a mindset like that, and we need to eat junk every night in order to “enjoy ourselves”. Again I don't mean to be rude. If you have a high body fat percentage then I would stick to CNS till you're comfortable enough to swap over to CBL, for your sake no one elses. If you feel like doing CBL then by all means, just be sure to tweak it to you and your goals.
I understand what you mean and I just usually ignore her but there are days where she gets pretty annoying because she hates the fact that she can't cook me food or just pick up random food to bring home to eat. She is on a low calorie diet and working out and I tried to convince her to try CNS but she without a doubt doesn't think she can live without being able to eat bread and sugary snacks. I just wanted someone's opinion on the matter but I will more than likely stick with CNS until I feel comfortable with the switch to CBL
I understand what you mean and I just usually ignore her but there are days where she gets pretty annoying because she hates the fact that she can't cook me food or just pick up random food to bring home to eat. She is on a low calorie diet and working out and I tried to convince her to try CNS but she without a doubt doesn't think she can live without being able to eat bread and sugary snacks. I just wanted someone's opinion on the matter but I will more than likely stick with CNS until I feel comfortable with the switch to CBL
I dated someone like this....It ended.
Yeah, woah, jeez; either you're not communicating your desires clearly enough, or you two've got a slight hitch in your relationship.#RelationshipBackloading
If you appease her by taking something away from yourself then there is a bigger issue. If you are trying to find an excuse to do CBL then that's different. If you are successful and CNS makes you happy and healthier then I don't see why food should be something that affects her. If its going out to dinners then I'm sure you know it's pretty easy to eat ULC and if its home meals then I usually make a carby side for my husband and just eat the protein.And....I don't think I saw a second page. I'll leave my response as is but I see that I'm not alone in my thoughts.
I understand what you mean and I just usually ignore her but there are days where she gets pretty annoying because she hates the fact that she can't cook me food or just pick up random food to bring home to eat. She is on a low calorie diet and working out and I tried to convince her to try CNS but she without a doubt doesn't think she can live without being able to eat bread and sugary snacks. I just wanted someone's opinion on the matter but I will more than likely stick with CNS until I feel comfortable with the switch to CBL
By the way she's jealous, has her own food demons and is taking her frustrations out on you. You need to do what works for you and hopefully she'll see that it's working and makes you happy. Misery loves company so don't change what makes you happy to appease her. I don't know how long this relationship has gone on but I can say from experience that you should hold your ground on this.Just an opinion though.In addition, if you gain weight or stall you'll probably blame her and it will cause much bigger issues.Your other question was answered in earlier posts. Until the bf is lower CNS is the way to go.
I understand what you mean and I just usually ignore her but there are days where she gets pretty annoying because she hates the fact that she can't cook me food or just pick up random food to bring home to eat. She is on a low calorie diet and working out and I tried to convince her to try CNS but she without a doubt doesn't think she can live without being able to eat bread and sugary snacks. I just wanted someone's opinion on the matter but I will more than likely stick with CNS until I feel comfortable with the switch to CBL
By the way she's jealous, has her own food demons and is taking her frustrations out on you. You need to do what works for you and hopefully she'll see that it's working and makes you happy. Misery loves company so don't change what makes you happy to appease her. I don't know how long this relationship has gone on but I can say from experience that you should hold your ground on this.Just an opinion though.In addition, if you gain weight or stall you'll probably blame her and it will cause much bigger issues.Your other question was answered in earlier posts. Until the bf is lower CNS is the way to go.
Phx dropping truth bombs FTW!
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